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Who can stand with you, what canon law asks, and what to do if you have no one.

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Confirmation help

Choosing a
sponsor.

Sponsors

Canon 874 in plain English.

Law

Canons 872–874, 892–893

Minimum age

16 (canon 874 §1, 2°)

Your sponsor is not just someone who stands behind you at the altar. They are meant to walk with you afterward. The Church asks that, as far as possible, everyone being confirmed have one (canon 892), and canon 893 applies the same rules used for baptismal godparents (canon 874). It also calls it desirable to choose your baptismal godparent.

Who can be a sponsor (Canon 874 §1)

  1. Is designated by the person being confirmed, their parents, or the pastor or minister, and has the aptitude and intention to carry out the role.
  2. Has completed their sixteenth year, unless the diocesan bishop sets another age or the pastor or minister grants an exception for a just cause.
  3. Is a Catholic who has been confirmed, has received the Most Holy Eucharist, and leads a life of faith in keeping with the role.
  4. Is not bound by any canonical penalty legitimately imposed or declared.
  5. Is not the father or mother of the person being confirmed.

Canon 874 §2: a baptized non-Catholic may serve only as a witness, and only together with a Catholic sponsor.

Heads up: your parish may add rules

Some parishes set a higher minimum age (for example 21), ask for a sponsor certificate from the sponsor's parish, or require that a married sponsor be married in the Church. Always check with your confirmation or OCIA coordinator.

No one to ask? You're not alone.

This happens a lot, especially for adults coming through OCIA. Tell your director. Many parishes keep volunteers ready to be matched with candidates. Joining a parish group is another good way to meet someone.

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