Their story
Philemon was probably a native of Colossae, and he was living there when St Paul wrote to him during his first captivity in Rome, around 62 or 63. Paul's letter shows that he was a man of property and influence, the head of a large household, and generous to his friends and to the poor. He owed his conversion to Paul.
His slave Onesimus ran away, and Paul, having converted and baptised Onesimus, wrote the letter to Philemon to reconcile them.
The later accounts disagree. Some make Philemon bishop of Gaza and others bishop of Colossae, and the Menology of Basil says he was martyred at Ephesus under Nero (Roman emperor 54–68, the first to persecute Christians, after the fire of Rome in 64). The commonly accepted tradition, adopted in the Roman Martyrology (the Church's official list of saints for each day), is that he and his wife Appia were seized by the pagans of Colossae during a festival of Diana. The governor Artoclus had them scourged, then buried up to their waists in the ground and stoned to death.



