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October 23 · Widow

St. Elfleda

St. Elfleda

Turning grief into prayer and service.

Traditional feast

October 23
1914 / pre-1969 calendar, per Baring-Gould (1897)

Current feast

Not verified yet

Represents

Widow

Their story

Adapted in modern English from Baring-Gould (1897–98) · original text below

(The surviving account on this page begins partway through the story.)

St. Dunstan treated the elderly widow Elfleda like a mother and stayed close to her in her last illness. One evening, late for vespers, he saw a snow-white dove fly from the abbey toward her house, its wings shining gold in the sunset.

Hurrying to her, he heard her talking behind her bed-curtains, and a nurse said a light had shone there. Elfleda told him she had been speaking with the one he had seen flying by. Baring-Gould suggests the marvel grew from a dying woman talking to a pet pigeon. She gave instructions for her burial, received the last sacraments next morning, and died.

Dunstan had begun saying the vespers psalms outside the church door when he saw the dove. The curtains had been drawn tight round the old woman's bed to keep off the draught, and the nurses could not say who she was talking to. Dunstan concluded she was speaking with angels.

Early life

Selected sentences from the original account, unaltered.

Dunstan spent much of his time with the old lady, whom he regarded as his mother, and when she was ill he was away from her as little as possible.

What they represent

How they teach us to live

Drawn from themes in the original account

Learn from the kind of life it was. Turning grief into prayer and service.

Keep their day. Remember them on October 23 with a short prayer, and ask for their help.

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The full original · 297 words

Read Baring-Gould’s full account

Baring-Gould’s sources: There are three saints of this name, Elfleda of Whitby, Feb. 8; Elfleda the daughter of Edward the Elder, Oct 29; and Elfleda the Widow, of Glastonbury, given by Alford in his Index of English Saints on April 13, but in the “British Martyrology ” on April 14; but the Auctuarium of the Martyrology of Usuardus, belonging formerly to the Church of Winchester, inserts, “ S. Elfleda, Queen,” on Oct 23. Authorities: — The Lives of S. Duns tan, both that which is anonymous and that by Osbem.] Elfleda was a wealthy matron, with royal blood flowing in her veins, who, on the death of her husband, retired to Glastonbury, where she established herself to the east of the great abbey church. Dunstan was then a boy in the Glastonbury school, and the lady was kind to him, and, as he was needy, gave him food and other little presents such as schoolboys are pleased in all ages to receive. King Athelstan came to Glastonbury when Dunstan was fifteen or sixteen years old, and was entertained by his kinswoman, Elfleda. The day before the king’s arrival, his household officers visited the widow to ascertain whether she had cups and plates enough for the entertainment of so large a party as would come with Athelstan. “ You have apparently enough vessels/' said they on looking over her preparations, “but there is a deficiency of mead.” She replied with dignity, “ My patron, the Virgin Mother, will send me abundance of ale.” Then, retiring to the ancient oratory of S. Mary, she prayed for beer with all her powers. Next day, the king arrived, and after mattins and mass with jocund temper he went to the widow’s for breakfast. Her little beer barrel contained apparently only enough to fill his horn drinking-cups1 once round; but marvellously 1 “ Cornibus scissis aliisque indiscretae quantitatis vasibus," &c S. Elfleda. 581 did it fall out that the barrel continued to run, and supplied the king and his men with as much beer as they wanted to drink — and Anglo-Saxons drank hard. After a while, King Athelstan said, “We really have been hard on my niece; we must have drunk her out of house and home. It is time to be moving.” And, having saluted his kinswoman, he departed.

Dunstan spent much of his time with the old lady, whom he regarded as his mother, and when she was ill he was away from her as little as possible. One evening he stayed beyond his time at her house, and when he reached the church was too late for vespers. He was beginning to repeat the proper psalms outside the door, when he saw a dove, white as snow, flying from the abbey towards the widow's house: its pure wings kindled by the evening sun seemed transmuted to gold, and flashed a bright reflection on his face as it passed. When he had done his office, he ran back to Elfleda's, and coming into her chamber, heard her from behind her bed-curtains, closely drawn round the old woman to keep off the draught, talking with some one. He asked the nurses in the room whom she was conversing with, and they said they could not tell. He therefore concluded that she was in familiar communication with angels. When he suggested this, “Ah!” said a nurse, “before you came, there was a sort of light shining from behind the bedcurtains.” As soon as the conversation ceased, Dunstan felt at liberty to put his head through the curtains, and ask Elfleda with whom she had been talking. “ Why do you ask?” she said. “Surely with him whom you saw flying this way, whilst you were standing outside the church.” It is easy to see how the fact of the old woman entertaining herself when dying, with a pet pigeon, resolved itself into a marvel.

She then gave him instructions about her body being vol. xii. 15 washed and laid out after her death, and having received next morning the last sacraments, she fell asleep in the Lord.

Feast days

Feast: October 23

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From Sabine Baring-Gould, The Lives of the Saints, new edition in 16 vols. (London: John C. Nimmo, 1897–98); text from the Internet Archive scan (OCR, lightly cleaned; errors possible). Public domain.

From Sabine Baring-Gould, The Lives of the Saints, new edition in 16 vols. (London: John C. Nimmo, 1897–98); text from the Internet Archive scan (OCR, lightly cleaned; errors possible). Public domain in the United States. Reproduced unedited, except for short bracketed notes in grey that we added to explain names and terms (“S.” is the old abbreviation for Saint). Some history and judgments reflect 19th-century scholarship.